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Teenage boys have unique needs. They often struggle to cope with the many emotional, physical and developmental changes thrust upon them during puberty and on their journey to adulthood. Eric & Erica, as a Husband & Wife team, work with teen boys to give them a safe and understanding place to process their deepest thoughts, explore their world in new ways, and to accept their personal struggle as a teenager. If you’re looking for counseling for your teenage son, consider us. We offer your teen son the option of working with either a male or female therapist - or the unique option of working in Co-Therapy with both Eric and Erica.
Teen Boys (11-19) Benefit From Our Expert Help To Solve Problems In Their Lives
It's very common for adolescent, teen and preteen boys to struggle with their feelings. They may exhibit moodiness, irritability, anxiety, sadness, anger, isolation, loneliness or stress? Is your son engaging in risky behaviors or having ups-and-downs in daily moods? Do their moods change suddenly without warning? For teen boys, it can be scary and stressful to not fully understand their own changing moods and feelings. Sometimes, teen boys' moods can change when their parents are fighting, in the process of separation or divorce, or during the post-divorce time when they begin time-sharing with each parent in different houses. Teen boys need support outside of parents, friends or family. Therapy and counseling allows teen boys to safely share feelings about their moods in a non-judgmental setting. Let Us Help.
Changing bodies. Raging hormones. Irrational thinking. All too often these sudden and uncontrollable changes cause adolescent and teen boys to feel out-of-control, uncertain, and alone. They can struggle with exploring their changing identity. In today's society, there is immense pressure on boys to grow-up quickly and look and engage in actions more suitable to adult men. According to a 2014 study published in Psychology of Men and Masculinity Journal, teenage boys excessively worry about their body image, which is a risk factor for elevated depressive symptoms among adolescent boys. It's normal for teen boys to feel overwhelmed by all of these changes, especially as they compare themselves to their peers. Are their muscles as big as their friend? Is their friend shaving yet? Why are they taller or shorter than their peers. These are all real and powerful questions and concerns. Let Us Help.
It’s no secret that societal norms tell teenage boys and men that seeking help for life’s problems is a sign of weakness. When teenage boys exhibit behavior changes or mood changes, they are frequently labeled as “problem boys.” Conversely, when teenage girls have similar issues, they are frequently associated with an overwhelming emotional overload that is understandable and typical. Such inconsistent messages from parents, schools and society can become internalized and compromise the self-worth and confidence of teen boys as they work to find their voice in an increasingly complicated world. Let Us Help.
Teen boys often present to the world as having two personalities: one in which they display to parents, family and teachers, and the other that they are free to "let out" with their closest friends. The personality that teen boys display with their friends is often met with acceptance and appreciation by their peers, but, at the same time, is often met with frustration and annoyance by their parents and teachers. Honoring the active, playful, and at times painful process of male identity formation gives young men the space and support they need to define masculinity for themselves. When teen boys are in an environment in which they feel safe to be seen and heard for all that they are, they are more open to talk and share their deep thoughts and feelings. Let Us Help.
The relationships between parents and children creates a bond that can never be truly broken. It's common for young boys to gravitate and be attached to their mothers when they are young. As they get older, that relationship changes as boys tend to connect more with dad or another male figure in their life. Sometimes, these patterns work in reverse. In either case, for parents, this shift in connection can be understood intellectually, but emotionally, it is often a very different story. During the teenage years, moms and dads of teen boys tend to struggle as they feel their 'motherhood,' 'fatherhood' and guidance is no longer welcome, or, in some cases, rejected by their 'rebellious' teen. Let Us Help Restore That Bond.
Teen boys are complex and unique. They each may experience a similar situation or problem in vastly different ways. Is your teen son experiencing academic/school performance changes? Excessive worrying or isolating? Destructive behaviors? Recent or sudden changes in sleep or appetite? A desire to develop his sense of self? Changes in social groups or increased isolated? Irritability, anxiety, self-hatred, or depression? Loss of joy in things was once excited about? Regardless of the "problem," it is solvable. Let Us Help.
Empowering boys to develop assertiveness skills, self-acceptance, and identity-building is our passion. Can you imagine how different your life might have felt if you had someone to talk to that wasn’t your parent or teacher, that gave you their undivided attention with non-judgment and compassion, and whose goal was to help you navigate all the moods and challenges that adolescence presents? What a gift that would be for your son!
Erica & Eric Are Experienced & Dedicated Therapists for Teenage Boys & Are The Parents of 2 Teens
Erica and Eric are a Husband and Wife Team who are both Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists. Some teen boys may feel more comfortable working with a female therapist while others may prefer a male. In most therapy practices, that's as far as the available option go. At Discovering Destinies, we offer a third, unique option: working with both Erica and Erica in our Co-Therapy format.
In Co-Therapy, your teen son works together with Eric and Erica at the same time. They benefit from both of our perspectives and experience, and, most importantly, it often eliminates any perceived bias or uncomfortability having to work with a therapist of only one gender.
We are passionate about working with teen boys who are searching to feel heard, validated, and, above all else, accepted. Your teen son wants a safe space to process his feelings in order to balance life, school and family pressures. This unique population often finds comfort to share their inner thoughts and feelings with us as unbiased, non-judgmental and relatable adults. As the parents of two teens, - a boy and a girl - and, most importantly, as Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists, we are dedicated to providing a safe, understanding and non-judgmental place to help teen boys of all ages and backgrounds to “explore their emotions” so that they can process their feelings and grow healthier as young men.
We work with parents and the teens to create a plan with specific, tangible goals unique to your son and your family. We may cover topics such as perfectionism, procrastination, self-harming behaviors, anxiety, depression, guys, girls, friends, identity, school, body image, and becoming proud to be authentically themselves. We don't believe that only working with your son is the solution. Our philosophy is that all problems are relational and that is why we often involve the parents and/or siblings in some sessions. We focus not only on your teen son but on how he interacts with others in his world.
As Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists, we firmly adhere to the belief that the person isn't the problem - the problem is the problem. That means that when we work with a teen boy, I don't see or view him as being the problem. Rather, our focus is on how a situation or condition in his life become a problem for him or for relationships that he has. This perspective is fundamental to our focus on patterns and relationships. We work with teens to discover how they relate to others in their life, how those relationships impact their own identity, and how to cope and adapt to their ever-changing nature. Most importantly, we accept our clients where they are in life – and do not focus on changing them. Remember, its the problem that needs to be solved - not your teen that needs to change.
Our experience working with teen boys taught us that even the most clinically sophisticated approaches and interventions are only effective if the therapist delivering them comes from a place of connection, compassion, and hope. We pride ourselves on joining with teens using different strategies and modalities best suited to their unique needs and personality. Therapy helps teen boys to process and cope with the feelings, emotions and issues that they face on a daily basis. It provides an effective way to combat insecurities, feeling misunderstood, find their inner-voice that may feel lost or missing, or to simply develop better tools to cope with life’s endless challenges. Despite the best intentions of parents and family members who may occasionally lend an-ear to hear a teen's stories and sympathize or give common-sense advice, they are often not equipped to help teen boys process and explore their emotions in a healthy and productive manner.
Who Am I?
ERICA is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Family Trauma Professional and Florida Supreme Court Certified Family Mediator. I've earned Masters Degrees in Marriage and Family Therapy, as well as in Education.
PASSIONATE, experienced and sensitive therapist specializing in working with Teenagers, Adolescents, Women, Couples and Families. I accept my clients where they are in life – and do not focus on changing them. It takes tremendous courage to face your fears, address your weaknesses and ask for help, guidance and compassion from another person. Allow me the honor to show you the respect you deserve, and embrace your stories and unique experiences with the goal of helping you reach your dreams, overcome difficulties, and thrive as you traverse life’s paths towards Discovering your True Destiny..
Who Am I?
ERIC is Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, an attorney with 25+ years experience and a Florida Supreme Court Certified Family Mediator.
NON-JUDGMENTAL, empathetic and experienced therapist specializing in helping Couples, Men, Families and Professionals. During my life’s journey, I have gone through periods where I felt overwhelmed, stuck or simply confused as to how to open-up and explore my emotions as a man in our society. I understand the challenge that men often experience letting down their guard to freely explore their emotions in their lives and relationships.
AFFORDABLY priced private-pay session fees accommodate almost all budgets. We also offer the convenient choice of either 50-minute or 80-minute sessions at our reasonable private pay rates. With our private pay clients, the therapist & client are the ones who determine the number and frequency and length of sessions.
INSURANCE is accepted only for individual (not couples or families) clients who have mental health insurance benefits provided by: Aetna, Optum (Oxford, UMR, Oscar Health) and United Healthcare. Insurance benefits are verified and claims are processed through out billing/administrative partner, Headway Florida Behavioral Health Services, P.A.
There are many pros/cons about choosing between private pay and insurance options.
Teens boys and their families may need extra support and guidance to help them deal with and navigate through life's challenges. That’s why we offer our services as therapists for teenage boys
Most teens feel misunderstood and isolated that no one understands what they're dealing with. We provide a non-judgmental space for teens to say what's on their mind.
Many teens have difficulty expressing their emotions and feelings. I give them a safe place to explore and develop communication skills to better cope with life's experiences.
This concept is about two related words. The "Self" is answering the question: who am I now as a teen? "Esteem" is answering the question: how do I value who I am now?
Therapy doesn’t need to be reserved for life altering events or major concerns. Having your teen son meet with us can prevent minor issues from turning into major problems.
My goal is to equip your teenage daughter with the practical skills, experience, and ability to learn to make intelligent and more satisfying decisions for themselves.
While some therapists focus on "fixing" the teen, we believe that all problems are relational. we often involve parents in the therapy process to work on parent-child dynamics. .
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Her strategies were fun and creative... a safe space... without feeling judged...
" As a teen, it can feel overwhelming to go into therapy. Ms. Erica opened my eyes up to all these new possibilities I never knew existed. Her strategies were fun and creative, allowing me to really understand the root of my anxieties or stressors. It made me feel safe, it was like a safe space where I could say anything and everything without feeling judged in any way, shape, or form... "
I don't know where I would be without her...
"From a pre-teen/teen perspective, dealing with anxiety and feeling alone is hard. Especially while balancing out school and friendships. Therapy has helped me so much, strategies to help cope with anxiety, ways to calm down and much more, Mrs.erica has definitely helped me these past I think 8 months. When I first started therapy I had 2 friends, hard school work and a lot of overwhelming thoughts. Now, today on September 7th, I am very happy and have many friends. I definitely recommend mrs.erica :) I am beyond thankful for her help, I don't know where I would be without her.
I think he is a great therapist...and makes people feel comfortable...
" Eric was a great help during a difficult transitory period in my life. He accurately assessed my underlying issues, and regularly brought attention to several recurring thoughts & circumstances, many of which I was unaware of. I think he is a great therapist, and is able to make people from almost any background and perspective feel comfortable with sharing their problems with him..."